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Never Allow Anyone to Steal Your Dreams

Don’t bother sharing your affirmations, beliefs and goals with negative people. These “dream stealers” are negative forces that can rob you of your confidence and personal empowerment. They can even stop you from taking action toward your goals.

Often they come in the form of doomsayers that enjoy wallowing in their own self-pity. They focus on “what ifs” and limited beliefs. Since they enjoy the company of like-minded people, they will work hard at keeping you down at their level. Don’t be tempted to go down there. Refuse to allow them to influence your personal beliefs and self-motivation to succeed.

You become who you surround yourself with most. Therefore you simply cannot afford to be around negative thinking people. You must refuse to allow them to rob you of your positive beliefs, lofty goals and the inspired commitment toward success.

Negative thoughts can quickly multiply

Negative thoughts lead to negative emotions that will outweigh positive emotions that keep you in action. For example, take a look at the news we hear every day, most of it is negative. We are bombarded with negative forces around us so much that we have to work very hard to keep a positive mind-set in check.

We all know negative people. They are the ones that focus more on what will or could go wrong rather than what will go right. These are the people who look for every opportunity to focus on why success has to be so hard and why they can’t get ahead. Yet these limiting thoughts will affect their belief system and hold them back from achieving more in life.

Watch out for these negative forces in your life. They will want to keep you down instead of lifting you up. They may tell you that you are crazy when you come up with innovative ideas or that you can’t achieve something you have your mind set on. And it’s only because they are closed minded to trying something new or breaking out of the mold. They prefer to stay negative, stuck and limited. But that’s not you!

Watch out for jealous people

They appear to be your friends, all the time trying to get you to conform and convert back to their level of thinking so that they can feel more comfortable with their own limited success. Watch out; because those slippery devils will try to reel you back into their negative, limited beliefs at any moment.

Dream Stealers, Doomsayers, What Ifers and Jealous People don’t support you. Therefore they must be avoided at all costs if you are serious about taking action and moving ahead.

It is important to realize that different people will react in different ways to the same suggestion. This is because they have different subconscious conditioning. All of us have our own inner fears, beliefs, and opinions. These inner assumptions rule and govern our lives each day.

When people set up obstacles in their conscious minds, they are denying wisdom and intelligence that feeds the subconscious. Once someone starts feeding negative thoughts, there is no way out of the roadblock they create in their mind.

So, if you want your subconscious to work for you, you have to give it the RIGHT suggestions to get POSITIVE feedback that will move you beyond the barriers. Your subconscious is your friend and it works for you around the clock 24/7; it is controlling your heartbeat and breathing at this very minute. It is keeping you alive. It is forever seeking to take care of you, preserve you and grant your wishes.

Changing your thoughts and actions will change your destiny

Remember that your subconscious mind does not engage in proving whether your thoughts are good or bad, true or false. It simply responds according to the nature of your mental suggestions. It does not have the ability to argue or dispute what it is told. Your subconscious mind will either support you or sabotage you. You choose!

Wouldn’t you love to have your own “Wish Genie” who could grant you a wish, upon your command 24/7? Well you do, so start believing in and asking for more positive outcomes and your wishes will come true.

Before you go to bed at night, feed your subconscious with positive affirmations. For example: “I wish to have another successful day tomorrow and I know that I will. I have all the skills, knowledge and support to make it happen. My confidence grows each day and I am taking the right actions toward exceeding my goals.”

Remember to be very careful to avoid others who make you doubt yourself. This will only sabotage your positive progress.

Grant yourself the wish of endless possibilities, unlimited success, abundance and joy.

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